{"id":748378,"date":"2025-06-25T07:27:31","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T05:27:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/?p=748378"},"modified":"2025-06-25T07:27:31","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T05:27:31","slug":"fytyra-e-huaj-e-nje-shtepie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/2025\/06\/25\/fytyra-e-huaj-e-nje-shtepie\/","title":{"rendered":"Fytyra e huaj e nj\u00eb \u201csht\u00ebpie”","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"

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Nga Sonila Meco<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Kur u mblodh\u00ebm von\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pas nj\u00eb dite t\u00eb gjat\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr zagushi, askush nuk kish fuqi e nerv p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dark\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cPica?\u201d, tham\u00eb thuajse nj\u00ebkohsh\u00ebm. E nuk kaluan 20 minuta kur n\u00eb celular nj\u00eb z\u00eb i ndrojtur m\u00eb fliste me nj\u00eb shqipe t\u00eb \u00e7al\u00eb:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cErda jam te ardeza juaj\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Dal t\u00eb marr porosin\u00eb dhe shoh nj\u00eb djal\u00eb zeshkan, q\u00eb m\u00eb zgjat picat dhe buz\u00ebqesh me nj\u00eb \u201cfaleminderit\u201d t\u00eb ngat\u00ebrruar bashk\u00ebting\u00eblloresh, kotkat e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs i \u201cg\u00eblltiste\u201d me uljen e z\u00ebrit.<\/span><\/p>\n

E pyes se nga \u00ebsht\u00eb e m\u00eb thot\u00eb nga India.<\/span><\/p>\n

Heu!!!<\/span><\/p>\n

E treta her\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jav\u00eb. T\u00eb h\u00ebn\u00ebn, n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes tek servisi teksa hyra t\u00eb nd\u00ebrroj gom\u00ebn e makin\u00ebs, 5 djem indian\u00eb m\u00eb sh\u00ebrbyen me kujdes, shpejt\u00ebsi e pa fjal\u00eb. Sot n\u00eb drek\u00eb tek dyqani ku b\u00ebjn\u00eb ca buk\u00eb t\u00eb mira thekre nga nj\u00eb \u00e7ift shqiptar\u00ebsh m\u00eb sh\u00ebrbeu nj\u00eb indian, q\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsonte shokun tjet\u00ebr indian, q\u00eb kish ikur pa lajm\u00ebruar as agjensin\u00eb q\u00eb i kish sjell\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00eb lagjen ton\u00eb karrocat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve shpesh i sh\u00ebtisin filipinaset. N\u00eb nd\u00ebrtim, dy lagje m\u00eb tutje gjen ca djem bangladeshas, q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb pun\u00eb hamalli.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dhe vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb \u201cbye friend\u201d nga indiani i qet\u00eb, i paqt\u00eb, i but\u00eb m\u00eb riktheu n\u00eb der\u00ebn e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb n\u00eb qytetin ku kam lindur, jam rritur e jam b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb. E p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb sht\u00ebpia m\u00eb ngjau si nj\u00eb ishull i vog\u00ebl n\u00eb nj\u00eb det t\u00eb panjohur, ku muret flasin gjuh\u00ebn e kujtimeve t\u00eb mia, por qyteti p\u00ebrreth flet nj\u00eb gjuh\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb, t\u00eb importuar, q\u00eb s\u2019ka as rr\u00ebnj\u00eb, as mall, as histori.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dhe nis e m\u00eb trishton jo prania e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, por mungesa e tan\u00ebve.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un\u00eb nuk jam raciste.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ksenofobi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb trishtim p\u00ebr Tiran\u00ebn q\u00eb nuk po rritet, por Tiran\u00ebn, q\u00eb po z\u00ebvend\u00ebsohet.<\/span><\/p>\n

Po zhduken z\u00ebrat, lagjet, buz\u00ebqeshjet e njohura. Po mbetet ve\u00e7 kaosi dhe qiraja e shtrenjt\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kur flas me ndonj\u00eb mik, q\u00eb m\u00eb kujton se edhe shqiptar\u00ebt jan\u00eb pritur jasht\u00eb, ndaj duhet t\u00eb mir\u00ebpresim emigrant\u00ebt q\u00eb vijn\u00eb tek ne kam gjithnj\u00eb bindjen dhe kurajon ta pranoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb krahasim i rrem\u00eb dhe shpesh hipokrit.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sepse shqiptar\u00ebt, kur ik\u00ebn n\u00eb vitet \u201990 dhe me eksode t\u00eb tjera m\u00eb pas, nuk shkuan p\u00ebr t\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsuar qytetar\u00ebt vendas, apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbushur boshll\u00ebqet e nj\u00eb sistemi t\u00eb kalbur.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ata u p\u00ebrplas\u00ebn me mure racizmi, me pun\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, me vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra pa dokumente dhe u p\u00ebrshtat\u00ebn ngadal\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb funksiononin. U integruan p\u00ebrmes ligjit, shkoll\u00ebs, gjuh\u00ebs dhe sakrific\u00ebs personale. Nuk u p\u00ebrqafuan si zgjidhje p\u00ebr zbrazjen e vendeve ku emigruan, por u toleruan si sfid\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nd\u00ebrsa Shqip\u00ebria nuk po i trajton sot emigrant\u00ebt si sfid\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u menaxhuar denj\u00ebsisht, por si z\u00ebvend\u00ebsues me kosto t\u00eb ul\u00ebt p\u00ebr nj\u00eb brez q\u00eb ka ikur. Nuk po nd\u00ebrton nj\u00eb sistem bashk\u00ebjetese, por nj\u00eb (anti)model ku shqiptari largohet p\u00ebr pag\u00eb t\u00eb denj\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb huajit i jepet pag\u00eb minimale p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos folur, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos protestuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos k\u00ebrkuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prandaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb. Shqip\u00ebria sot nuk po ndihmon t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por po z\u00ebvend\u00ebson vetveten. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dramatike.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kur ndonj\u00eb i njohur, i rehatuar me pun\u00eb shteti m\u00eb thot\u00eb se ky \u00ebsht\u00eb zhvillim, i k\u00ebrkoj t\u00eb shoh\u00eb n\u00eb sy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vet e ta pohoj\u00eb para tyre. \u201cNuk jan\u00eb k\u00ebtu\u201d, m\u00eb thot\u00eb. \u201cNuk edukohen k\u00ebtu\u201d. E s\u00ebrish pa e fyer p\u00ebr hipokrizin\u00eb i kujtoj se zhvillimi \u00ebsht\u00eb kur njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e nd\u00ebrtuan k\u00ebt\u00eb qytet jetojn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb. Kjo jona \u00ebsht\u00eb zbrazje. \u00cbsht\u00eb nd\u00ebrrim popullsie pa zhurm\u00eb. Dhe se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij nuk i largoi m\u00ebrzia, por mungesa e shpres\u00ebs. Dhe indian\u00ebt, bangladeshasit, afrikan\u00ebt q\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri nuk gjejn\u00eb k\u00ebtu \u00ebndrr\u00ebn europiane, por nj\u00eb form\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mbijetese.<\/span><\/p>\n

Zhvillimi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ndodh kur nj\u00eb vend ngre pagat, t\u00ebrheq talentet, i jep dinjitet profesionit dhe krijon shtres\u00eb t\u00eb mesme produktive. Shqip\u00ebria nuk po b\u00ebn asnj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej k\u00ebtyre. Shqip\u00ebria po eksporton rinin\u00eb e vet dhe po importon skamje t\u00eb huaj. N\u00eb vendet ku shqiptar\u00ebt emigrojn\u00eb, pun\u00ebtor\u00ebt e huaj plot\u00ebsojn\u00eb mungesat n\u00eb sektor\u00eb me vler\u00eb t\u00eb shtuar, n\u00eb teknologji, nd\u00ebrtim, kujdes sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor. N\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri ata z\u00ebvend\u00ebsojn\u00eb pun\u00ebtor\u00ebt q\u00eb jan\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb ikin p\u00ebr mbijetes\u00eb, p\u00ebr rroga q\u00eb nuk sigurojn\u00eb jet\u00eb. Dhe jo n\u00eb sektor\u00eb prodhues.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb moderne t\u00eb kesh pun\u00ebtor\u00eb t\u00eb huaj n\u00eb \u00e7do cep t\u00eb qytetit\u201d, m\u00eb shkruan nj\u00eb e njohur rehatuar me projekte t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb civile. Por hesht pasi i gjegjem se s\u2019ka asgj\u00eb moderne n\u00eb faktin q\u00eb nj\u00eb vend i varf\u00ebr, me nj\u00eb shtres\u00eb t\u00eb holl\u00eb oligark\u00ebsh, po z\u00ebvend\u00ebson njer\u00ebzit e vet, jo p\u00ebr zhvillim, por sepse nuk ka kush t\u2019i sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb. Rinia shqiptare nuk po ik\u00ebn sepse nuk ka pun\u00eb. Po ik\u00ebn sepse s\u2019ka m\u00eb kuptim. Sepse puna k\u00ebtu nuk t\u00eb jep as dinjitet, as siguri, as t\u00eb ardhme. Kurse Shqip\u00ebria z\u00ebvend\u00ebson t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb me krah\u00eb pune m\u00eb t\u00eb lira, q\u00eb nuk ankohen, nuk votojn\u00eb, nuk protestojn\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb Tirana kozmopolite pra mam\u201d, m\u00eb thot\u00eb vajza ime adoleshente nd\u00ebrsa qesh me hutimin tim. Por i kthehem se e hutuara \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo. T\u2019i thuash Tiran\u00ebs \u201ckozmopolite\u201d sot, sepse ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb indian\u00eb, filipinas dhe bangladeshas n\u00eb pun\u00ebt e lodhshme \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb keqkuptim i thell\u00eb. Sepse nj\u00eb qytet b\u00ebhet kozmopolit kur p\u00ebrthith kultura, ide, dije, investime dhe nd\u00ebrton bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb mbi respekt t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjell\u00eb dhe standarde t\u00eb larta jetese, jo kur mbush boshll\u00ebkun e emigracionit t\u00eb vet. T\u00eb jesh kozmopolit nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb largosh f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tu dhe t\u00eb mbush\u00ebsh sheshet me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk din\u00eb \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb ky vend, por kur ruan identitetin t\u00ebnd dhe ia hap der\u00ebn bot\u00ebs n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb. N\u00eb Tiran\u00ebn \u201ckozmopolite\u201d t\u00eb dit\u00ebve tona, shqiptari nuk p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsohet m\u00eb, por z\u00ebvend\u00ebsohet. Dhe ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb globalizim, por zbrazje e organizuar.<\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, kozmopolitizmi k\u00ebrkon sistem, kultur\u00eb institucionale dhe standard social. Tirana nuk i ka k\u00ebto. Ka vet\u00ebm nd\u00ebrtime, beton pa mbarim dhe pun\u00eb t\u00eb paguara keq.<\/span><\/p>\n

E si mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtosh shtet o lum miku mbi importin e varf\u00ebris\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb eksporton \u00e7do dit\u00eb inteligjenc\u00ebn, forc\u00ebn dhe shpres\u00ebn e vendit t\u00ebnd?!<\/span><\/p>\n

Kur iu ktheva pic\u00ebs pas v\u00ebrshimit t\u00eb 1001 mendimeve qe ftohur. Qe b\u00ebr\u00eb bajate. Nj\u00eb shije e thartuar m\u00eb pushtoi laringun dhe \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht nuk p\u00ebrtova t\u00eb ziej nj\u00eb vez\u00eb e t\u00eb kripos nj\u00eb domate p\u00ebr dark\u00eb. Ndoshta nga nj\u00eb frenim prej n\u00ebnvet\u00ebdijes si form\u00eb mbrojtjeje ndaj nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr shp\u00ebrndar\u00ebsi indian, q\u00eb me shqipe t\u00eb sakatuar e pag\u00eb minimale do m\u00eb uronte nat\u00ebn e mir\u00eb tek dera e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb n\u00eb qytetin ku jam lindur, rritur e ku jam b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dhe Tirana nuk ka ndryshuar se ka ardhur bota tek ne. Ka ndryshuar sepse ne kemi ikur prej saj. T\u00eb huajt nuk jan\u00eb problem, por boshll\u00ebku q\u00eb i pret \u00ebsht\u00eb. Sepse qyteti nuk b\u00ebhet m\u00eb i mir\u00eb kur mbushet me t\u00eb panjohur, por kur ata q\u00eb e nd\u00ebrtuan ndihen ende pjes\u00eb e tij. Dhe kjo ndjesi po shuhet, qet\u00ebsisht, pa rezistenc\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb qytet nuk e gjen shpirtin tek ata q\u00eb e mbushin p\u00ebrkoh\u00ebsisht, por tek ata q\u00eb e kujtojn\u00eb si sht\u00ebpi edhe kur jan\u00eb larg. Dhe zgjedhin nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb kthehen p\u00ebr ta dashur s\u00ebrish.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Sonila Meco Kur u mblodh\u00ebm von\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pas nj\u00eb dite t\u00eb gjat\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr zagushi, askush nuk kish fuqi e nerv p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dark\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme. \u201cPica?\u201d, tham\u00eb thuajse nj\u00ebkohsh\u00ebm. E nuk kaluan 20 minuta kur n\u00eb celular nj\u00eb z\u00eb i ndrojtur m\u00eb fliste me nj\u00eb shqipe t\u00eb \u00e7al\u00eb: \u201cErda jam te ardeza juaj\u201d […]<\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"author":49,"featured_media":372396,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-748378","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-editorial"],"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"link","format":"url"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/748378","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/49"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=748378"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/748378\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":748379,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/748378\/revisions\/748379"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/372396"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=748378"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=748378"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=748378"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}