{"id":659690,"date":"2024-03-08T12:49:52","date_gmt":"2024-03-08T11:49:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/?p=659690"},"modified":"2024-03-08T15:36:21","modified_gmt":"2024-03-08T14:36:21","slug":"feminizmi-i-keqkuptuar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/2024\/03\/08\/feminizmi-i-keqkuptuar\/","title":{"rendered":"Feminizmi i keqkuptuar!","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Nga Irena Beqiraj <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Debati p\u00ebr barazin\u00eb gjinore ose thelbi i feminizmit\u00a0 \u00ebsht\u00eb i mbushur me klishe .<\/span><\/p>\n

Ndersa 30% e pasuris\u00eb s\u00eb vendeve n\u00eb zhvillim edhe 38% e saj\u00a0 n\u00eb vendet e zhvilluara posedohet nga grat\u00eb,\u00a0 s\u00ebrisht grat\u00eb i gjen shum\u00eb pak n\u00eb borde drejtuese sidomos n\u00eb bot\u00ebn financiare . Madje kjo karakteristik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e dukshme edhe n\u00eb vendet skandinave t\u00eb cilat dallohen p\u00ebr politikat publike n\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje t\u00eb grave .<\/span><\/p>\n

49 vende kan\u00eb vendosur kuota,\u00a0 ku 30% e p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues\u00ebve\u00a0 politik\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb gra .\u00a0 Vendin e par\u00eb e mban Ruanda ku 61 % t\u00eb posteve p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuese mbahen nga grat\u00eb. Por\u00a0 grat\u00eb duan cdo dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb emigrojn\u00eb nga Ruanda .<\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebr mos t\u00eb folur p\u00ebr klishe t\u00eb tipit se “grat\u00eb n\u00eb drejtim jan\u00eb m\u00eb paq\u00ebsore se burrat”\u00a0 Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb historia tregon\u00a0 q\u00eb grat\u00eb po ashtu i kan\u00eb futur vendet e tyre n\u00eb luft\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj si burrat . Studimet e sociolog\u00ebve tregojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00a0 stilin e grave n\u00eb drejtim. Ata i kan\u00eb ndar\u00eb ato n\u00eb dy identikite , 1) gruaja alpha , edhe 2) gruaja bonobo , ose ndryshe\u00a0 1)bleta mbret\u00ebresh\u00eb\u00a0 q\u00eb sillet si burr\u00eb n\u00eb drejtim\u00a0 edhe 2) gruaja e drejt\u00eb e cila nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera ndihmon edhe forcon grat\u00eb e tjera.\u00a0 Fatkeq\u00ebsisht shumica e grave q\u00eb kan\u00eb drejtuar kan\u00eb rezultuar gra alpha , p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb k\u00ebtu edhe shum\u00eb gra q\u00eb adhurohen si modele t\u00eb sukseshme si Margaret Thatcher, Indira Gandhi etj.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Nj\u00eb grua e mencur si Elena Ferrantes shkruan:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0“Grat\u00eb sot jetojn\u00eb mes kontradiktave t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme dhe st\u00ebrmundimeve t\u00eb pap\u00ebrballueshme. \u00c7do gj\u00eb, v\u00ebrtet \u00e7do gj\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb form\u00ebsuar n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb nevojave t\u00eb burrave, madje edhe t\u00eb brendshmet tona, zakonet seksuale, m\u00ebm\u00ebsia , virtytet, k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia, vet\u00eb gjuha jon\u00eb po skalitet p\u00ebrul\u00ebsisht n\u00eb hierarkit\u00eb e mashkullores, edhe ne vet e d\u00ebnojm\u00eb\u00a0 ose l\u00ebvdojm\u00eb nj\u00ebra tjetr\u00ebn sipas kodesh q\u00eb realisht nuk na p\u00ebrkasin e q\u00eb na rraskapitin” .<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

N\u00eb hirarkin\u00eb e mashkullores grat\u00eb me vullnetin e tyre lundrojn\u00eb midis nevoj\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb nj\u00ebherazi objekt edhe subjekt. Ato nuk ngrurojn\u00eb madje t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin bukurin\u00eb fizike si element\u00a0 p\u00ebr t\u00eb transportuar\u00a0 sh\u00ebndet, rini, potenc\u00eb seksuale, edhe sukses profesional. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb sot sporti komb\u00ebtar q\u00eb ushtrohet\u00a0 nga grat\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb hapsir\u00ebn publike. P\u00ebrdorimi i botoksit, silikonit\u00a0 dhe veshjes jan\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb imazhit por t\u00eb mbijet\u00ebses n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme. Logjika duket shum\u00eb josh\u00ebse dhe imponuese:\u00a0 Gazetarja, deputetja, opinionistja, bankjerja , avokatja ,\u00a0 nuk ofrojn\u00eb dot m\u00eb nj\u00eb produkt t\u00eb mir\u00eb pa rregulluar imazhin,\u00a0 pra ato\u00a0 duhet ti ken\u00eb buz\u00ebt e rib\u00ebra ( jo te holla ), dh\u00ebmb\u00ebt me faceta\u00a0 porcelani , dhe xhaketat nj\u00eb p\u00ebrdorimshe.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Feminizmi \u00ebsht\u00eb keqkuptuar duke u transformuar n\u00eb barazi postesh , kuotash , klikimesh , rroge e pasurie . Por\u00a0 numrat n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast nuk tregojn\u00eb\u00a0 barazi.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eb forcosh nj\u00eb grua do t\u00eb thot\u00eb , ta edukosh, ta aft\u00ebsosh at\u00eb , ta pais\u00ebsh me oportunitetin p\u00ebr\u00a0 zgjedhur jet\u00ebn\u00a0 sipas k\u00ebrkesave edhe mund\u00ebsive t\u00eb saj.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pra , n\u00ebse duam t\u00eb masim emancimipin shoq\u00ebror\u00a0 edhe p\u00ebrparimin n\u00eb barazin\u00eb gjinore\u00a0 , na nevojitet\u00a0 t\u00eb dim\u00eb\u00a0 sa\u00a0 gra vendosin t\u00eb lira p\u00ebr veten e tyre,?\u00a0 Sa gra\u00a0 gabojn\u00eb, edhe kan\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb\u00a0 ringrihen, pa e kthyer disfat\u00ebn, humbjen\u00a0 n\u00eb viktimizim?\u00a0 Na nevojitet t\u00eb dim\u00eb sa gra e konsiderojn\u00eb burrin nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebudh\u00ebtar (pse jo edhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohsh\u00ebm ) edhe jo shtyll\u00ebn kurizore t\u00eb gjith\u00eb\u00a0 qeni\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre?\u00a0 Na nevoitet t\u00eb dim\u00eb\u00a0 sa\u00a0 gra\u00a0 pranojne rrudhat si shenj\u00ebn e nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb jetuar plot\u00ebsisht . Sa gra p\u00ebrtej imazhit t\u00eb mir\u00ebq\u00ebnies\u00a0 q\u00eb mundohen “t\u00eb shesin p\u00ebrdit\u00eb reflektojn\u00eb mir\u00ebqenie t\u00eb brendshme ?<\/span><\/p>\n

Barazia\u00a0 u p\u00ebrket atyre grave q\u00eb din\u00eb\u00a0 t\u00eb\u00a0 shtrojn\u00eb rrug\u00ebn\u00a0 e t\u00eb pasurit “nj\u00eb jet\u00eb me zgjedhje”\u00a0 edhe t\u00eb jen\u00eb cfar\u00eb munden m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb .<\/span><\/p>\n

Gezuar 8 Marsin p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb grat\u00eb q\u00eb g\u00ebzojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb barazi\u00a0 me burrat!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Irena Beqiraj Debati p\u00ebr barazin\u00eb gjinore ose thelbi i feminizmit\u00a0 \u00ebsht\u00eb i mbushur me klishe . Ndersa 30% e pasuris\u00eb s\u00eb vendeve n\u00eb zhvillim edhe 38% e saj\u00a0 n\u00eb vendet e zhvilluara posedohet nga grat\u00eb,\u00a0 s\u00ebrisht grat\u00eb i gjen shum\u00eb pak n\u00eb borde drejtuese sidomos n\u00eb bot\u00ebn financiare . Madje kjo karakteristik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"author":30,"featured_media":659691,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-659690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-editorial"],"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"link","format":"url"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/659690","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=659690"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/659690\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/659691"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=659690"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=659690"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=659690"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}