{"id":421100,"date":"2021-01-02T17:58:43","date_gmt":"2021-01-02T16:58:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hashtag.al\/?p=421100"},"modified":"2021-01-02T18:40:21","modified_gmt":"2021-01-02T17:40:21","slug":"me-shami-dhe-shofere-autobusi-ne-itali-historia-e-bukuries-shqiptares-nga-kavaja-qe-thyen-stereotipet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/2021\/01\/02\/me-shami-dhe-shofere-autobusi-ne-itali-historia-e-bukuries-shqiptares-nga-kavaja-qe-thyen-stereotipet\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cMe shami dhe shofere autobusi n\u00eb Itali\u201d-Historia e Bukuries, shqiptares nga Kavaja q\u00eb thyen stereotipet","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"

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N\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ideale, historia e Bukurie Voka, nj\u00eb 37-vje\u00e7are shqiptare nga qyteti i vog\u00ebl i Kavaj\u00ebs q\u00eb ndodhet disa kilometra nga Durr\u00ebsi, do t\u00eb ishte thjesht ajo e nj\u00eb gruaje q\u00eb ka gjetur vendin e saj n\u00eb bot\u00eb si shofere autobusi, shkruan Corriere della Sera.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ajo q\u00eb e b\u00ebri at\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb simbol i emancipimit dhe integrimit t\u00eb femr\u00ebs, sidoqoft\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb shamia q\u00eb mban, duke d\u00ebshmuar besimin e saj, por, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, se dikush mund dhe duhet t\u00eb besoj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb nes\u00ebrme n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn distancat midis kulturave nuk jan\u00eb ato an\u00ebsore, por mund t\u00eb lidhen n\u00eb disa “ndalesa” n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e toleranc\u00ebs, t\u00eb mund\u00ebsive konkrete t\u00eb barabarta, t\u00eb respektit t\u00eb thell\u00eb t\u00eb diversitetit.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Ajo q\u00eb b\u00ebj p\u00ebr mua \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr sesa thjesht nj\u00eb pun\u00eb sepse \u00e7do dit\u00eb kam sigurin\u00eb t\u00eb jem e dobishme p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit”, shpjegon Bukurie me z\u00ebrin e qet\u00eb t\u00eb dikujt q\u00eb ndihet si nj\u00eb person i p\u00ebrmbushur.<\/span><\/p>\n

E divorcuar dhe me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb adoleshente, ajo arriti n\u00eb Itali 13 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb, duke ndaluar n\u00eb Bolonj\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb vendosej p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb Merano rreth nj\u00eb dekad\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb. Pastaj, duke filluar nga gushti 2019 , ishte pika e kthes\u00ebs: ajo u pun\u00ebsua nga Sasa si shofere.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Un\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb pun\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb lejuar t\u00eb jetoj me dinjitet – thot\u00eb ajo -. Para se t\u00eb merrja autobus\u00ebt, n\u00eb fakt, un\u00eb punoja n\u00eb nj\u00eb depo frutash n\u00eb Gargazzone<\/em>\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb trajektore njer\u00ebzore, ajo e Bukuries, e cila kap\u00ebrcen pengesat dogmatike dhe klishet\u00eb arkaike.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prandaj, nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u rikthyer, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb 2020 t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar nga Covid, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kishte shum\u00eb pak arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshur.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si muslimane, si ndiheni q\u00eb jeni b\u00ebr\u00eb simbol i emancipimit dhe integrimit fem\u00ebror?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cJam e lumtur n\u00ebse njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb shohin si nj\u00eb simbol pozitiv. Sidomos n\u00ebse historia ime mund t’u jap\u00eb shum\u00eb grave q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb q\u00ebllimet e tyre pa u kusht\u00ebzuar aspak. Duke th\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb them se gjat\u00eb shum\u00eb viteve q\u00eb kam jetuar k\u00ebtu, un\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk jam ndjer\u00eb e p\u00ebrjashtuar ose viktim\u00eb e racizmit. N\u00eb Sasa, pra, kam nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb mir\u00eb me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb<\/em> “<\/span><\/p>\n

Si lindi kjo zgjedhje p\u00ebr tu b\u00ebr\u00eb shofer autobusi?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cIshin dy momente vendimtare. E para ka ndodhur kur isha duke punuar n\u00eb Gargazzone. Atje, shpesh mbaroja von\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse nuk mund ta kapja autobusin n\u00eb koh\u00eb, p\u00ebr mua do t\u00eb thoshte t\u00eb prisja nj\u00eb or\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb ose n\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb rast\u00ebsisht u vonova, por shoferi, duke m\u00eb par\u00eb duke vrapuar, ishte aq i mir\u00eb sa t\u00eb m\u00eb priste. Nj\u00eb gjest q\u00eb disa mund ta konsiderojn\u00eb banal, por q\u00eb nuk e kam harruar kurr\u00eb. Arsyeja e dyt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb takimi me shoqen time Maria, e cila tashm\u00eb ishte shofere. Ajo vazhdonte t\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte provoje … provoje … derisa u binda v\u00ebrtet ta b\u00ebja<\/em>\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dhe si e priti familja juaj n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

“Prind\u00ebrit e mi ishin mjaft t\u00eb befasuar, sepse n\u00eb fillim u shmanga t’ia tregoja. Un\u00eb u p\u00ebrmbajta paksa duke mos ditur se si ata do t\u00eb prisnin lajmin. Pastaj, duke e par\u00eb veten entuziaste p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb sigurt p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb po b\u00ebja, vendosa t’i tregoja atyre p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Ata m\u00eb kuptuan dhe m\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebn, gjithashtu sepse ndiheshin t\u00eb lumtur dhe t\u00eb qet\u00eb. N\u00ebse ata do t\u00eb kishin shqet\u00ebsime se un\u00eb do ta mbaja shamin\u00eb, nuk m\u00eb than\u00eb kurr\u00eb<\/em> “.<\/span><\/p>\n

A keni d\u00ebgjuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ndonj\u00eb shaka me shije t\u00eb keqe nga ndonj\u00eb koleg mashkull n\u00eb lidhje me faktin se keni qen\u00eb nj\u00eb shofere fem\u00ebr dhe p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr me shami?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cJo, p\u00ebrkundrazi … nj\u00eb miq\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar gjithashtu me shum\u00eb prej tyre. Un\u00eb do t\u00eb thoja q\u00eb ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb. Pastaj, t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht nga p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre fetare, kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb duan t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushin veten si njer\u00ebz. P\u00ebr shembull, un\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i admiroj grat\u00eb police<\/em>\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nga udh\u00ebtar\u00ebt n\u00eb vend?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cJo drejtp\u00ebrdrejt. Dikur, nj\u00eb person q\u00eb un\u00eb e njihja solli bised\u00ebn e dy zonjave. Nj\u00ebra prej tyre e pa t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme q\u00eb un\u00eb kisha nj\u00eb shami dhe drejtoja nj\u00eb autobus. P\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ishte vet\u00eb bashk\u00ebbiseduesi i saj q\u00eb tha se un\u00eb isha mir\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb dhe se n\u00eb Sasa ata din\u00eb k\u00eb t\u00eb pun\u00ebsojn\u00eb. N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, udh\u00ebtar\u00ebt jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb respektuesh\u00ebm ndaj meje<\/em>\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sasa pun\u00ebson njer\u00ebz t\u00eb nj\u00ebzet komb\u00ebsive t\u00eb ndryshme. \u00c7far\u00eb atmosfere ka n\u00eb kompani dhe \u00e7far\u00eb vler\u00ebsoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb mjedis multikulturor?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

“Ekziston nj\u00eb humaniz\u00ebm i madh: shum\u00eb koleg\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e kan\u00eb treguar veten t\u00eb jen\u00eb altruist dhe t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm. Tek ne nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme nga vini por si dukeni dhe si silleni<\/em>\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si mendoni se do t\u00eb shihej nj\u00eb grua me vello duke drejtuar nj\u00eb autobus n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Sinqerisht nuk e di. Ndoshta do t\u00eb dukej e \u00e7uditshme, por do t\u00eb doja q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb trajtohej me respekt, pik\u00ebrisht si\u00e7 ndodh k\u00ebtu<\/em>\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ideale, historia e Bukurie Voka, nj\u00eb 37-vje\u00e7are shqiptare nga qyteti i vog\u00ebl i Kavaj\u00ebs q\u00eb ndodhet disa kilometra nga Durr\u00ebsi, do t\u00eb ishte thjesht ajo e nj\u00eb gruaje q\u00eb ka gjetur vendin e saj n\u00eb bot\u00eb si shofere autobusi, shkruan Corriere della Sera. Ajo q\u00eb e b\u00ebri at\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb simbol […]<\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"author":32,"featured_media":421101,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[65,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-421100","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme","category-te-fundit"],"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"link","format":"url"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/421100","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/32"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=421100"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/421100\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/421101"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=421100"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=421100"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=421100"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}