{"id":339712,"date":"2019-12-09T09:09:19","date_gmt":"2019-12-09T08:09:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hashtag.al\/?p=339712"},"modified":"2019-12-09T09:18:09","modified_gmt":"2019-12-09T08:18:09","slug":"pse-grate-ne-kenia-po-shkruajne-ne-rruge","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/2019\/12\/09\/pse-grate-ne-kenia-po-shkruajne-ne-rruge\/","title":{"rendered":"Pse grat\u00eb n\u00eb Kenia po shkruajn\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00eb?","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"

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Grat\u00eb dhe vajzat e reja n\u00eb Kibera, nj\u00eb nga vendbanimet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha informale t\u00eb Afrik\u00ebs, po shkruajn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00eb apo n\u00eb kanavac\u00eb p\u00ebrvojat e tyre t\u00eb ngacmimit seksual.<\/span><\/p>\n

Paralajm\u00ebrim: Disa lexues mund t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohen nga disa fjal\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorura n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb artikull.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Zubeida Yusuf ka jetuar n\u00eb Kibera (pran\u00eb qytetit t\u00eb Nairobit n\u00eb Kenia) gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj dhe p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa ajo mban mend, ngacmimi n\u00eb rrug\u00eb ka qen\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Burrat t\u00eb thon\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla si p\u00ebrshembull: ‘Ti je shum\u00eb e sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb. A \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna jote kasape? A e ka p\u00ebrdorur Per\u00ebndia cop\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb fundit t\u00eb argjil\u00ebs tek ti sepse ke gjinj t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj dhe t\u00eb pasme t\u00eb m\u00ebdha’. \u00a0\u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u p\u00ebrballuar kur ecim k\u00ebtu n\u00eb rrug\u00eb”<\/em>– thot\u00eb 22-vje\u00e7arja.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, zonja Yusuf ka m\u00ebsuar si t\u00eb luftoj\u00eb kund\u00ebr k\u00ebtyre ngacmimeve dhe po ndihmon dhe grat\u00eb e tjera n\u00eb Kibera t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb z\u00ebrin e tyre n\u00eb situata kur ndjehen t\u00eb pafuqishme.<\/span><\/p>\n

Duke p\u00ebrdorur shkum\u00ebsa, Yusuf dhe vajza e gra t\u00eb tjera po shkruajn\u00eb p\u00ebrvojat e tyre t\u00eb ngacmimit n\u00eb rrug\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ato shpresojn\u00eb se kjo fushat\u00eb e quajtur “Kthimi i Shkum\u00ebsit” do t\u00eb nxis\u00eb biseda rreth natyr\u00ebs s\u00eb d\u00ebmshme t\u00eb ngacmimeve seksuale n\u00eb rrug\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

“N\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme, kur burrat m\u00eb fyejn\u00eb, un\u00eb ndaloj dhe i pyes n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb pse po e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebr vajzat e mitura mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb t’u kthehen. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse fushata si k\u00ebto jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. M\u00eb shum\u00eb prej nesh duhet t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb dhe t’u tregojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzve se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb flasin me grat\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb.”<\/em>– thot\u00eb Yusuf.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mesazhe trondit\u00ebse<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Respekto trupin tim”<\/em>, thuhet n\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh n\u00eb rrug\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

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T\u00eb tjera shkrime n\u00eb suedisht, zbulojn\u00eb mesazhe m\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuese.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Chura hii”<\/em>, nj\u00eb shprehje n\u00eb zhargon q\u00eb ka kuptimin e prostitut\u00ebs, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht do t\u00eb thot\u00eb edhe bretkos\u00eb n\u00eb suedisht.<\/span><\/p>\n

Caroline Mwikali, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7 dhe gjithashtu banore e Kibera-s, rr\u00ebfen se disa nga shprehjet e p\u00ebrdorura kund\u00ebr saj l\u00ebndojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se sa autor\u00ebt e kuptojn\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Ju nuk mund t\u00eb ecni n\u00ebp\u00ebr k\u00ebto rrug\u00eb pa hasur nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb thot\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb keqe p\u00ebr ju. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ne madje krahasohemi me kafsh\u00ebt. Ndikon n\u00eb vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimin e dikujt. Shpesh pyes veten: A jam me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb aq e pavler\u00eb ose aq e sh\u00ebmtuar sa ai person thot\u00eb?”<\/em>– shprehet ajo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por problemi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm kostoja emocionale e ngacmimit n\u00eb rrug\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Zona t\u00eb ndaluara p\u00ebr grat\u00eb<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Sipas Kombeve t\u00eb Bashkuara, mungesa e t\u00eb dh\u00ebnave dhe politikave krahasuese t\u00eb vendit mbi ngacmimin n\u00eb rrug\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr shum\u00eb sfidat kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr luftimin e problemit dhe sigurin\u00eb e vajzave dhe grave n\u00eb hap\u00ebsirat publike.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb studim i planit nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar t\u00eb ngacmimit n\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb pes\u00eb qyteteve, zbuloi se m\u00eb pak se nj\u00eb n\u00eb 10 prej grave dhe vajzave t\u00eb intervistuara, i kan\u00eb raportuar p\u00ebrvojat e tyre te autoritetet.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kjo p\u00ebr shkak se grat\u00eb nuk ishin t\u00eb sigurta se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnin sakt\u00ebsisht autoritetet p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe nuk e dinin n\u00ebse ngacmimi n\u00eb rrug\u00eb mund t\u00eb cil\u00ebsohej si nj\u00eb krim “serioz”.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ekspert\u00ebt pajtohen q\u00eb ngacmimi n\u00eb rrug\u00eb vazhdon t\u00eb pengoj\u00eb pjes\u00ebmarrjen e grave n\u00eb hap\u00ebsirat publike sociale dhe ekonomike. Shpesh, grat\u00eb detyrohen t\u00eb modifikojn\u00eb sjelljen e tyre p\u00ebr t’u p\u00ebrshtatur.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Ka disa skenar\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb i shmang. Kur shoh nj\u00eb grup t\u00eb madh burrash t\u00eb mbledhur diku, nuk kaloj atje”<\/em>, thot\u00eb zonja Mwikali.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Ka edhe vende, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb gjejn\u00eb kurr\u00eb jasht\u00eb. Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb dhunuar n\u00eb disa prej k\u00ebtyre zonave”.<\/em>– shton ajo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nd\u00ebrsa bota vazhdon t\u00eb sh\u00ebnoj\u00eb dit\u00eb aktivizmi kund\u00ebr dhun\u00ebs me baz\u00eb gjinore, grat\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn marshojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb drejt\u00ebsi kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr krime t\u00eb tilla.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nd\u00ebrsa zonja Mwikali dhe gra t\u00eb tjera vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb shkruajn\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, disa burra mblidhen p\u00ebrreth. Ata thon\u00eb se rr\u00ebfimet e grave p\u00ebr ndikimin e ngacmimit n\u00eb rrug\u00eb i kan\u00eb hapur syt\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

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“Mend\u00ebsia jon\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb ka qen\u00eb se ne kemi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb mbi grat\u00eb. Ne mendojm\u00eb se n\u00ebse i flasim nj\u00eb vajze ajo duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet. Ne nuk e dinim q\u00eb nuk ishte n\u00eb rregull deri von\u00eb. Ne po m\u00ebsojm\u00eb ngadal\u00eb.”<\/em>– thot\u00eb nj\u00eb 25-vje\u00e7ar, Wilson Maina.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Un\u00eb mendoj se dim\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb tani. Jemi ndri\u00e7uar n\u00eb lidhje me \u00e7\u00ebshtjet q\u00eb lidhen me dhun\u00ebn seksuale dhe dhun\u00ebn me baz\u00eb gjinore dhe se si ta trajtojm\u00eb at\u00eb”<\/em>– shton 26-vje\u00e7ari, Jairus Omulando.<\/span><\/p>\n

VINI RE:<\/span> Ky artikull \u00ebsht\u00eb pron\u00eb intelektuale e BBC<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Grat\u00eb dhe vajzat e reja n\u00eb Kibera, nj\u00eb nga vendbanimet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha informale t\u00eb Afrik\u00ebs, po shkruajn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00eb apo n\u00eb kanavac\u00eb p\u00ebrvojat e tyre t\u00eb ngacmimit seksual. Paralajm\u00ebrim: Disa lexues mund t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohen nga disa fjal\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorura n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb artikull. Zubeida Yusuf ka jetuar n\u00eb Kibera (pran\u00eb qytetit t\u00eb Nairobit n\u00eb Kenia) […]<\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"author":30,"featured_media":339713,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-339712","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nderkombetare"],"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"link","format":"url"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/339712","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=339712"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/339712\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/339713"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=339712"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=339712"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=339712"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}