{"id":310861,"date":"2019-07-18T13:55:56","date_gmt":"2019-07-18T11:55:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hashtag.al\/?p=310861"},"modified":"2019-07-18T14:03:10","modified_gmt":"2019-07-18T12:03:10","slug":"gjykata-perkrah-nenen-qe-kerkon-ti-ndryshoje-gjinine-te-birit-i-ati-e-kundershton","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/2019\/07\/18\/gjykata-perkrah-nenen-qe-kerkon-ti-ndryshoje-gjinine-te-birit-i-ati-e-kundershton\/","title":{"rendered":"Gjykata p\u00ebrkrah n\u00ebn\u00ebn q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t’i ndryshoj\u00eb gjinin\u00eb t\u00eb birit, i ati e kund\u00ebrshton","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"

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Jeff Younger, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb betej\u00eb gjyq\u00ebsore me ish-gruan e tij, n\u00ebse djali i tyre duhet t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, thot\u00eb se urdhri i gjykat\u00ebs e ndalon at\u00eb t\u00eb diskutoj\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla si feja apo nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb respektuar vajzat.<\/span><\/p>\n

Jeff dhe ish-bashk\u00ebshortja e tij, Anne Georgulas, po p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb zgjidhin nj\u00eb mosmarr\u00ebveshje prind\u00ebrore ndaj djalit t\u00eb tyre, Xhejmsit. <\/span><\/p>\n

Anne k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul se James identifikohet si vajz\u00eb, e quan Luna dhe parashikon terapin\u00eb e hormoneve dhe p\u00ebrfundimisht nd\u00ebrrimin e seksit n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen p\u00ebr t\u00eb. <\/span><\/p>\n

Jeff refuzon iden\u00eb dhe thot\u00eb se djali i tij \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht i k\u00ebnaqur q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e tij. \u00c7ifti po lufton nj\u00eb betej\u00eb ligjore, me gjykat\u00ebn q\u00eb p\u00ebrkoh\u00ebsisht ka urdh\u00ebruar Jeff t\u00eb mos vendos\u00eb nj\u00eb identitet mashkull mbi f\u00ebmij\u00ebn.<\/span><\/p>\n

Urdhri e ndalon Jeffin q\u00eb t\u00eb th\u00ebrras\u00eb djalin e tij Xhejms para t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve q\u00eb e njohin at\u00eb si nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe kjo e kufizon duksh\u00ebm at\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb s\u00eb bashku.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2018N\u00eb thelb nuk mund t\u00eb shkoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. E mbaj at\u00eb larg nga \u00e7do shok q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb q\u00eb e njeh at\u00eb si nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time ai njihet si Xhejmsi dhe p\u00ebrdor p\u00ebremra mashkullor\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb un\u00eb jam e ndaluar t\u00eb b\u00ebj tani po p\u00ebrpiqet ta bind\u00eb at\u00eb se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb\u2019<\/em>, tha ai.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vendimi i gjykat\u00ebs do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb Jeff, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kristian ortodoks, duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i kujdessh\u00ebm kur diskuton besimin e tij me djalin e tij, tha ai. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu i kujdessh\u00ebm n\u00eb lidhje me m\u00ebsimin e Jakobit si t\u00eb sillemi me dashuri, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e tij nuk mund t\u00eb interpretohen si imponuese t\u00eb nj\u00eb identiteti mashkullor gjinor.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2018Un\u00eb jam edhe pak i trembur p\u00ebr t\u00eb lexuar Librin e Zanafill\u00ebs, teksa b\u00ebjm\u00eb leximet biblike pas Pashk\u00ebs\u2019<\/em>, tha ai.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2018Pra, un\u00eb kam pasur shum\u00eb probleme n\u00eb komunikimin me t\u00eb mbi \u00e7\u00ebshtjet fetare dhe mbi gj\u00ebrat themelore q\u00eb do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb m\u00ebsonit djemt\u00eb, \u00e7\u00ebshtjet rreth vet\u00ebkontrollit: se si duhet t\u00eb merren me grat\u00eb, grat\u00eb e moshuara, duke i respektuar bashk\u00ebmoshataret e tyre\u2019.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2018\u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr mua q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj se si ta b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb pa e shkelur urdhrin e gjykat\u00ebs.\u2019<\/em> – shtoi ai.<\/span><\/p>\n

Jeff tha se James ishte keqdiagnostikuar me dysphoria gjinore dhe thjesht d\u00ebshiron miratimin e t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2018Gjykata na k\u00ebrkoi t’i merrnim ato n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbimet sociale dhe t’i l\u00ebm\u00eb djemt\u00eb t\u00eb shprehin preferencat e tyre,\u2019<\/em> tha Jeff.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2018Dhe \u00e7far\u00eb tha James: ai d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb tij dhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e babait t\u00eb tij. Ai n\u00eb thelb d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit e tij ta duan.\u2019<\/em> – shtoi ai.<\/span><\/p>\n

VINI RE<\/strong><\/span>: Ky material \u00ebsht\u00eb pron\u00ebsi intelektuale e RT<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jeff Younger, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb betej\u00eb gjyq\u00ebsore me ish-gruan e tij, n\u00ebse djali i tyre duhet t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, thot\u00eb se urdhri i gjykat\u00ebs e ndalon at\u00eb t\u00eb diskutoj\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla si feja apo nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb respektuar vajzat. Jeff dhe ish-bashk\u00ebshortja e tij, Anne Georgulas, po p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb zgjidhin […]<\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"author":51,"featured_media":310862,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-310861","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ballina","category-nderkombetare"],"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"link","format":"url"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310861","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=310861"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310861\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/310862"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=310861"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=310861"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=310861"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}