{"id":297000,"date":"2019-05-15T08:20:51","date_gmt":"2019-05-15T06:20:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hashtag.al\/?p=297000"},"modified":"2019-05-15T08:29:39","modified_gmt":"2019-05-15T06:29:39","slug":"si-rriten-femijet-ne-fshatrat-pa-mama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/2019\/05\/15\/si-rriten-femijet-ne-fshatrat-pa-mama\/","title":{"rendered":"Si rriten f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb “Fshatrat pa mama”","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"

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N\u00eb Indonezin\u00eb lindore ka zona, ku pothuajse t\u00eb gjitha n\u00ebnat e reja kan\u00eb shkuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar jasht\u00eb vendit.<\/span><\/p>\n

Indonezian\u00ebt i referohen k\u00ebtyre komuniteteve si “fshatra pa mama”<\/em>. Rebecca Henschke e BBC<\/a><\/span>-s\u00eb shkoi n\u00eb k\u00ebto fshatra t\u00eb Indonezis\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb takuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e l\u00ebn\u00eb pas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ely Susia\u00ebati ishte 11 vje\u00e7e kur n\u00ebna e saj e la at\u00eb, n\u00ebn kujdesin e gjyshes. Prind\u00ebrit e saj u ndan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar para p\u00ebr familjen e tyre t\u00eb re, dhe n\u00ebna Martia, filloi nj\u00eb pun\u00eb si ndihm\u00ebse n\u00eb Arabin\u00eb Saudite.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kur e takova p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb Ely-n, ajo ishte n\u00eb vitin e fundit n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Ajo m\u00eb tregoi sa e mjerueshme kishte qen\u00eb kur n\u00ebna e saj u largua – dhe ishte e qart\u00eb se ndarja ende e l\u00ebndonte.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Kur shoh shoqet me prind\u00ebrit p\u00ebrreth n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb m\u00eb trishton. Dua q\u00eb n\u00ebna ime t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi,”<\/em> tha ajo.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Un\u00eb nuk dua q\u00eb n\u00ebna ime t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb largohet, e dua n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, duke u kujdesur p\u00ebr v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e motrat e mia”.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00eb fshatin ku Ely jeton, Wanasaba, pranohet se puna jasht\u00eb vendit \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb n\u00ebnat e reja duhet ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i dh\u00ebn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Shumica e njer\u00ebzve k\u00ebtu punojn\u00eb si fermer\u00eb ose pun\u00ebtor\u00eb, duke fituar vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb grat\u00eb mund t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb si pun\u00ebtore sht\u00ebpiake ose dado jasht\u00eb shtetit.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kur n\u00ebnat largohen, bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt marrin p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr p\u00ebrkujdesjen ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve – dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebtu kujdesen p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Por \u00ebsht\u00eb e dhimbshme p\u00ebr \u00e7do f\u00ebmij\u00eb, q\u00eb t’i thot\u00eb lamtumir\u00eb nj\u00eb prindi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kjo situat\u00eb ka ndidkuar n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me n\u00ebnat e tyre. N\u00ebna e Karimatul Adibia u largua kur ajo ishte nj\u00eb vje\u00e7are, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ajo as nuk mund ta kujtoj\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb ato kan\u00eb kaluar bashk\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm kur filloi shkoll\u00ebn fillore, n\u00ebna e saj mundi ta vizitonte. Por vajza nuk e njihte. Ajo gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs shikonte si mama hall\u00ebn e saj.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Isha aq e hutuar”<\/em>, thot\u00eb Karimatul.<\/span><\/p>\n

“M\u00eb kujtohet q\u00eb mamaja po qante. Ajo i tha hall\u00ebs:\u00a0Pse vajza ime nuk e di se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e imja? “<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Tanim\u00eb ajo i d\u00ebrgon mamas\u00eb video \u00e7do nat\u00eb, por marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia mes tyre vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Edhe kur mami im vjen p\u00ebr pushime, dua t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj me hall\u00ebn time. M\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj me t\u00eb, por un\u00eb i them se do t\u00eb vij m\u00eb von\u00eb.”<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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Karimatul dhe halla<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p><\/div>\n

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Halla e saj, Baiq Nurjannah, ka n\u00eb kujdestari edhe n\u00ebnt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb prej t\u00eb cil\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb i saji.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0T\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt jan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve apo motrave t\u00eb saj, q\u00eb kan\u00eb shkuar jasht\u00eb vendit p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Un\u00eb e quaj mamaja e vjet\u00ebr,”<\/em> thot\u00eb Karimatul me t\u00eb qeshura.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grat\u00eb filluan t\u00eb udh\u00ebtojn\u00eb jasht\u00eb vendit p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar nga kjo pjes\u00eb e Indonezis\u00eb n\u00eb vitet 1980.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pa mbrojtje ligjore ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb pambrojtura ndaj abuzimit. Ka histori t\u00eb grave q\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi n\u00eb arkivole. T\u00eb tjera jan\u00eb rrahur aq keq nga pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit dhe kan\u00eb p\u00ebsuar l\u00ebndime t\u00eb r\u00ebnda. Disa jan\u00eb d\u00ebrguar n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pa pages\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dhe nganj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00ebnat vijn\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me m\u00eb shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, t\u00eb lindur nga marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me forc\u00eb ose konsensuale.<\/span><\/p>\n

Duke qen\u00eb raca t\u00eb p\u00ebrziera, k\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb dallojn\u00eb mes t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve n\u00eb fshat. Fatimahu tet\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7, thot\u00eb se ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb i p\u00eblqen v\u00ebmendja.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Njer\u00ebzit shpesh m\u00eb shikojn\u00eb t\u00eb befasuar, u dukem ndryshe. Disa thon\u00eb: Oh, je shum\u00eb e bukur, sepse ke gjak arab. Kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur”<\/em>, thot\u00eb ajo me nj\u00eb qeshur nervoze.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por grupet e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb migrant\u00ebve, thon\u00eb se k\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb shpesh ngacmohen n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fatime kurr\u00eb nuk e takoi babain e saj arab, por ai d\u00ebrgonte para n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, duke i lejuar asaj t\u00eb q\u00ebndronte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Pastaj, jo shum\u00eb koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, ai vdiq. Pas k\u00ebsaj, jeta u b\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb n\u00ebna e Fatimahut u largua s\u00ebrish p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pun\u00eb tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb Arabin\u00eb Saudite.<\/span><\/p>\n

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N\u00eb Indonezin\u00eb lindore ka zona, ku pothuajse t\u00eb gjitha n\u00ebnat e reja kan\u00eb shkuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar jasht\u00eb vendit. Indonezian\u00ebt i referohen k\u00ebtyre komuniteteve si “fshatra pa mama”. Rebecca Henschke e BBC-s\u00eb shkoi n\u00eb k\u00ebto fshatra t\u00eb Indonezis\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb takuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e l\u00ebn\u00eb pas. Ely Susia\u00ebati ishte 11 vje\u00e7e kur n\u00ebna e saj e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"author":30,"featured_media":297003,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-297000","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nderkombetare"],"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"link","format":"url"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/297000","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=297000"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/297000\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/297003"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=297000"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=297000"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hashtag.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=297000"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}